Tomorrow my marriage turns 3 (August 30). Just for fun, I googled 3rd wedding anniversary gift ideas (not that Erik and I are traditional) and here is what I discovered: “The 3rd wedding anniversary is often when a couple is aware of their durability of their relationship. That is why leather is the traditional gift for this celebration. Leather is durable, warm, strong, flexible, and has a sense of resiliency to it. These are qualities that help marriages continue to thrive.” ~random weblink I also found this: “Ways to Celebrate Your 3rd Anniversary: Since leather is the traditional gift for this anniversary, consider plan a western themed evening together and listen to country love songs.” Somehow I don’t think Erik would enjoy that….ha!
Upon reflection, I would have to agree that leather is a great symbol for this particular anniversary. The past three years have both defined and strengthened our marriage. I sense the durability, the strength, the flexibility, and resilience that has been worked into us throughout our journey with Christ. Who we have become as a couple is a direct a result of Christ’s influence and sustaining grace. Jesus has been amazing. He’s proven himself to be everything he promised he would be and to do everything he promised he would do. He’s been our number one source—our provider, comfort, joy, our confidence in times of uncertainty. He’s led us all over the world (we’ve learned so much!) and he has assured us that he will continue to light our path.
If Christ were not the foundation of our entire relationship (the reason we even started dating) I know there is no way we would have made it to year 3 unscathed. Life is far too unpredictable and complicated.
I am so thankful for Erik—he is everything a husband should be. My life is complete with him and I can’t imagine enjoying the journey without him by my side for the ride.
Happy Anniversary, E!
Here’s the song I wrote for E that we recorded for our wedding day. Demo-ish style.
